Doh so close. I was typing without the table in front of me.
The RMA column contains the opposite NAME not ID.
For example I have a Person BO with a ps_Employer
On the Person BO the Trio is as follows:
ps_Employer_REN
ps_Employer_RID
ps_Employer_RMA
The REN indicates the related object name (or BOG)
The RID is the key
The RMA is the return attribute
So
REN=Company
RID=nnnnnn
RMA=pm_Employee
Alternatively if the Company and the Person were a Business Object Group called Contacts (and we weren't talking about employees) then the REN could be Contacts. Presumably this allows the server in the background to then do the join across Company and Person tables to provide a list of Contacts with types Person and Company.
If instead of a two direction relationship I had just used a BO as reference data, e.g. Title (Mr, Ms, Mrs) then the RMA is blank, as I have no need to be able to link back from Mr Ms Mrs etc back to Person records.